Bryan Paul Sullo

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Things to Share 2015-03-14

In Arts & Entertainment, Character Development, Faith & Religion, Family, Writing on 14 March 2015 at 8:49 pm

Volume 2 of things I’ve found to share recently:

In this installation, we have . . .

  • “Hacking Vehicles”
  • Маша и Медведь
  • “Making Selves Without Straw”
    and . . .
  • “Is that a Gun in Your…Pants?”

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20 Tenets of “If—”

In Arts & Entertainment, Character Development on 17 January 2014 at 7:30 am

If—Today (18 January 2014), being the seventy-eighth anniversary of the death of Rudyard Kipling (1865 — 1936), I thought it fitting to post something about one of his most famous poems, “If—”.

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To a Year Without Fear

In Character Development on 31 December 2013 at 8:58 am

My life, in 2013, has been a series of frightening experiences. The year began with the worst experience of my professional career. Mid-way through the year, my wife and I had twins. Scariest of all, I grew a beard.

Staring down the barrel of 2014, I can say I’m a lot more confident than I was a year ago. That’s because, in the midst of my work crisis, I came up with a one-word mantra that has changed my outlook on life:

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The Fastest Way to Kill Motivation

In Character Development, Family, Life in General on 22 November 2013 at 1:10 pm

Most of us want to be praised for doing a good job. Praise is a big motivator. Whether it’s a child cleaning his room, or an employee compiling a report, praise for a job well done will help get them to do it again.

You might think that means people all just looking for praise, and that not getting it will demotivate them. That’s not necessarily true. There are plenty of other ways to be motivated, but the best way to kill motivation is to ask, remind, or tell someone to do the very thing they just did.

Wait. No one would do that. Right? Wrong. People do it all the time. Read the rest of this entry »

The Truth About Babies

In Character Development, Family on 17 November 2013 at 2:52 pm

I’m going to let you in on a dirty little secret about children that those who have them will rarely admit. Those of you who have, follow along and see if you agree.

Here’s the secret: There is nothing fun about newborn babies.

Oh, sure, when they’re not yours, they’re cute, and soft, and fun to hold. Imagine, though, if the next time you held a newborn, the parents threw you a diaper bag and ran out the door never to be seen again. It wouldn’t be long before that cute little bundle of joy had your last bundle of nerves tied in a knot. Read the rest of this entry »